The Illusion Most of us have been conditioned to believe that love should strike like lightning—a magical moment where sparks fly, hearts race, and everything clicks instantly. We treat the conjunction like a rare Pokémon that needs to be caught quickly, fearing that the butterflies will disappear if we don’t act fast . But in reality, that intensity often fades as quickly as it arrives. The initial rush can cloud our judgment, and when the magic wears off, we’re left wonderi

A toddler, full of confidence, approached an older individual. With clear intent, the child made eye contact & handed over a piece of candy. It was evident—at least to me—that he wanted the adult to open it for him. What happened next was surprising. The adult, seemingly disconnected from the moment, misread the toddler’s request & instead handed the candy to another child. The toddler, having successfully communicated his need, was left without what he sought, while the othe

You might find yourself in solitude, but remember: your essence is a gift, not a flaw. Perhaps, the way you perceive the world makes you a rare species (you’re a unicorn in a field of donkeys). Your ability to find beauty where others see ordinary could mean that you shine in the darkest corners. That, my friend, isn’t a weakness; it’s a divine inheritance. The Trap of Projecting Potential Ask yourself: Are you in love with their potential, or with the person standing in fron